Coffee Talk #3: Forgiveness

Forgiveness is one of the greatest things to aspire to in life.

   All the way I grown up, I make a lot of mistakes, and I beg for forgiveness. It sounds easy to open your mouth to beg for forgiveness, but the one you begging for, sometimes s/he is truly hurt by you, and s/he might need a lots of effort and strength to forgive, s/he needs to to step forward with a big step to accept your apology.

   Forgiveness is like a key that brings you and your family and friends together, and you gain a better relationship with them.

   Forgiveness is a part of life for human, we all make mistakes, we are being careless sometimes, it's not anything surprising. If we ask for forgiveness in this kind of issues, others will too. So, just forgive and forget.

   

   And you know what? Sometimes we will feel regret for not forgiving. So, why you let yourself feel regret?

   Maybe you will feel unworthy and do not have the willing to forgive those who had cheated you or did some cruel acts to you. You may feel they do not deserve your forgiveness, as they might had deeply hurt you, it's normal, we are human, we have feelings. But have you ever think, all those madness and angers will always follow you, they hide in the deepest of your heart. You will not feel happy, when there is always a corner that keeps on reminding you of your sorrow and anger. Remember, forgiveness is about forgive yourself too. Release yourself, for a healthy and cheerful life.

REMEMBER,

   You have so much to gain by forgiving the person who wronged you.  Anger is a poison and by letting it go, you are opening yourself up to so much good. 

We are all full of weakness and errors; let us mutually pardon each other our follies.
-By Voltaire

Loves,

Chris ❤