Girls Talk: Being Sexy

   Being a girl, what does pretty meant to you? How do you define Sexy?

   Most of the girls may thought that sexy is showing lots of skin or wear less, by showing their boobies or hips. While taking photos or act, they will always arch their waist, chess or hips, somehow it does looks sexy, but when they over show it, it will become hoochie. 

   For me, sexy is like a charisma that comes out from inner heart, inadvertently. Even wearing a Tee with Jeans, or a suit, you can smell the sexy of her. 
  
   A smart and brilliant girl can be sexy and  a girl with strong personality can be sexy either. They need not to purposely shows it, need not to bite their lip or squint their eyes to be sexy. A girl who has confidence is charming enough.

   I'm not a pretty or even a sexy person. I gain almost 10kg in 3 years, from size XS to XL. You can tell how plum I am from my sizes. To be honest, I'm 163cm tall and weight 56kg (3 years back, I were only 46kg). I can't find any dresses or clothing that suit me well at the beginning, all my old cloths can't be wear, especially my pant. I was an athlete, I exercise a lot, I did push up and I did weightlifting. So, it makes my shoulder really broad. Since I gain weight, I become more fleshy and solid, my hips are huge, my waist is straight with no curve and my back is thick. I'm so exhausted to find a dress or outfit that looks fit on me. 

   Since then I never think that I can be sexy, until months ago, a friend of mine suddenly pop out, hey Chris, do you know how sexy you are?
   I was like OMG, have you lost your mind? I can't be sexy! And he said, I just feel they way you are is sexy, the way you act and the way you talk are so charming. 
   That is my very first time I get compliment that saying I'm sexy.

   Girls can be sexy, in thousands of ways. If you are confident enough, feel great and awesome, you can be charming!

Regards,